Where we’re at:

Kevin and Seth led a 90-minute workshop for 15 top leaders in NCAA Athletics at AD360 in Atlanta on Tuesday, who are preparing to become ADs.

We led on:
- The Leadership Control Panel
- How understanding your leadership voice should drive your decisions as a leader
- Building a support and challenge system for feedback

We also spoke to about 250 ADs and their executives at CALS 1-Day.

Kevin will be traveling to Vegas to speak at NACDA early next week! If you’ll be at any of these events, we’d love to say hello! Want to bring us to your campus/event? Reply to this email, and we’ll make it happen!

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πŸ“Œ What’s inside:

  • 🧠 Why β€œnot there yet” is not the same as β€œnot good enough”

  • ⚠️ The hidden barrier between potential and performance

  • πŸ“Š A simple question to identify what's actually holding people back

  • 🏁 Why development is often more about subtraction than addition

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Anecdote: The Wrong Fix

One of the most common coaching mistakes sounds like this:

"This player just needs more confidence” or "They need to improve their technique” or "They need more reps." Sometimes that's true. But often, it's not.

Watch enough elite performers, and you'll notice something interesting.

The issue usually isn't capability. It's interference.

The athlete already has the shot. The leader already knows what to do. The team already possesses the talent. Yet something gets in the way when it matters most.

Fear. Pressure. Overthinking. Self-doubt. Expectation.

And suddenly, performance looks very different from potential.

🧠 The Big Idea:

One of the foundational ideas from The Inner Game of Tennis is this:

Performance = Potential - Interference

Most development efforts focus on increasing potential.

More training. More information. More systems. More resources.

But what if the biggest opportunity isn't adding something?

What if it's removing something?

Because for most athletes, coaches, and leaders, the largest gap isn't between where they are and what they know.

It's between what they're capable of and what they're consistently able to access.

πŸ“Š What Interference Actually Looks Like

When coaches hear "interference," they often think about athletes. But interference affects everyone.

For athletes, it might look like:

  • Fear of failure

  • Overthinking

  • Playing cautiously

  • Losing confidence after mistakes

For coaches, it might look like:

  • Avoiding difficult conversations

  • Coaching emotionally after losses

  • Second-guessing decisions

  • Worrying about outside opinions

Different people.

Same problem.

Something internal is preventing potential from showing up consistently.

⚠️ The Trap

When performance drops, our instinct is usually to add.

Add another drill.
Add another meeting.
Add another workout.
Add another solution.

But sometimes the answer isn't addition. It's subtraction.

Removing fear, doubt, pressure, distractions, unrealistic expectations, or limiting beliefs.

The best coaches understand this distinction. They don't just build skills.

They help remove barriers.

Putting It All Together:

So, Instead of asking:

"What does this person need more of?"

Try asking:

"What's getting in the way of what's already there?"

That question changes everything. Because development isn't always about building.

Sometimes it's about uncovering.

🏁 A Final Thought:

Most people spend their lives trying to add to their potential.

The best performers spend just as much time reducing interference.

They know that greatness isn't always found in learning something new.

Sometimes it's found in removing the things that were holding them back all along.

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