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Whatβs in this newsletter?
π§ Why we've spent months writing about your mental game
π Your first BETTER Mental Performance Index
π A clearer picture of where you are today
π The beginning of your mental performance journey
π The Journey Weβve Been On
Over the last several months, we've talked about a lot of ideas together.
We've talked about why goals aren't really about goals.
We've talked about becoming instead of achieving.
We've talked about fear of embarrassment.
We've talked about judging yourself versus evaluating yourself.
We've talked about Competitive Joy and why one performance should never become a verdict about who you are.
We use this newsletter to talk out loud about the things we are learning in our own work. So, they were all pieces of something much bigger.
Weβve been building a tool for coaches that we believe is foundational for athletes.
A Mental Performance Index.
At first, we thought we were creating an assessment.
But over time we realized we were really trying to answer one question:
Can athletes learn to understand themselves before trying to change themselves?
But very few stop to ask:
"Where am I today?"
You can't improve from who you wish you were. You improve from who you honestly are.
That's what this assessment is designed to help you discover.
π§ Before You Begin
A few reminders.
This is not a test. There are no right answers. There is no score that makes you a "good" athlete. And there is certainly no score that determines your future.
The goal isn't to impress anyone. Itβs honesty. Answer based on who you actually are today.
Not who you were six months ago. Not who you hope you'll become. Not who you think your coach wants you to be.
This is meant to be a snapshot of today.
Awareness always comes before improvement.
π The BETTER Mental Performance Index
For Coaches: the link above is shareable. Send it to anyone who youβd like to take it, and they can screenshot their results or download a results page to send back to you.
πͺ Before You Look At Your Score
Whatever your score is...
Don't judge it. Get curious about it.
One of the biggest lessons we've learned while building this assessment is that almost every athlete has one or two areas quietly shaping the rest of their performance.
Improvement looks like being observant about yourself more than judgmental.
You're not supposed to be perfect. You're supposed to become more aware.
Remember, a score doesn't define you.
It gives you information.
βοΈ Three Questions Before You Close This Email
Don't skip this part.
Take two minutes and answer these honestly.
1. What surprised you the most about your results?
2. Which section do you think would have the biggest impact on your performance if it improved?
3. What's one thing you'll pay attention to this week because of what you learned?
π A BETTER Thought:
There are actually athletes that we have refused to work with. And itβs because we realize quickly that they lack the foundational thing that unlocks the rest of our work.
Itβs self-awareness.
Self-awareness isn't glamorous.
And we think it might be the most important skill an athlete can develop. Every improvement begins with it.
With honesty.
The courage to see yourself clearly.
That's why we've spent the past several months writing about fear, purpose, drift, and Competitive Joy.
Itβs not about mental toughness. But because they help you understand yourself.
And understanding yourself is where real growth begins.
π One More Thingβ¦
This assessment isn't the finish line.
It's the starting line.
Weβve built a course for athletes of all ages to grow in Fear, Purpose, Drift, and Competitive Joy.
You'll learn how to:
Separate your identity from your performance.
Build a purpose bigger than winning.
Understand your Drift before it controls you.
Develop the kind of Competitive Joy that stays with you through both great performances and difficult ones.
We are extremely excited about it and almost ready to show it to anyone whoβs interested.
If you would like to preview the course, share it with an athlete, or be notified when the first version opens, join the Game Within Early Access List below.
Today wasn't about getting a score. It was about getting a starting point.
See you next week.

