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š§± Building Culture on Purpose (Not by Accident)
āļø Once your leadership is clear, hereās how to shape a culture that actually sticks.

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š Quick Recap: Leadership comes firstābut culture is what your team experiences
š§ New Insight: Culture is not what you sayāitās what your team feels consistently
š„ Anecdote: One head coachās 3-week culture turnaround
š§° How-To Guide: Five steps to architect the culture your performance needs
š The Sequence Still Matters
Youāve heard it for weeks nowāand itās still true:
Leadership ā Culture ā Performance
Last week, we gave you a tactical guide for where to start as a leader. Today, we shift to what your leadership creates: the culture that either lifts your team or limits it.
š§ Culture: What Your Team Feels Every Day
Remember from our letter what culture is. We have to clarify what culture means. We provided a framework for understanding what culture is really.

Culture isnāt a one-time speech.
Itās not a poster.
Itās not what you say in a recruiting pitch.
Culture is what your team consistently experiences.
Itās the emotional and behavioral environment your leadership createsāhow it feels to be a part of your team every day.
Hereās the key: if you donāt shape that intentionally, it forms accidentally. And accidental culture rarely leads to sustained performance.
š„ Anecdote: The Culture Reset
A head coach we worked with had this realization mid-season:
āI kept telling our players we had a āteam-firstā cultureābut everything about our schedule and communication said āperformance-first.āā
We helped that coach implement just two things:
A culture āpre-practice touchpointāā60 seconds focused on one key behavior.
A system for rewarding the right cultural behaviors, not just the best stats.
The team didnāt get softer. Many coaches are hesitant to do even simple things like this because they fear it will compromise the high standards they hold for behavior. But, the team didnāt get softer, it got more aligned.
Culture became feltānot just said.
š ļø Putting It All Together:
š§° Five Steps to Build a Culture That Drives Performance
Hereās your tactical blueprint:
1. Codify What You Actually Want
Values on the wall arenāt enoughāthey must be paired with action.
Donāt copy buzzwordsādefine 3 behaviors that make your team win and work well.
Think: What do we want to feel like? How do we act when weāre at our best?
Plug: If youāre looking for a framework to do this, weāve built a tool called the Culture Playbook thatās precisely what we use to help teams turn vague values into concrete, coachable actions (see more below).
2. Design Daily Cultural Moments
Where in your day or week are you reinforcing these behaviors?
Use pre-practice language, postgame rituals, or meeting openers to shine a light on what matters.
3. Catch People Doing It Right
Culture lives in what you celebrate.
Pick 1ā2 moments a week to highlight players/staff modeling your valuesānot just scoring points or closing deals.
4. Build It Into Your Systems
Does your calendar, feedback, reward system, and film sessions reinforce your culture?
If not, the loudest systems will overpower your quiet intentions.
5. Evaluate It with the Team
Ask monthly: What are we known for right now? What do we want to be known for?
Let your team tell you what theyāre experiencingāthen adjust with intention.
š Conclusion: Shape It or Drift
Culture isnāt complicatedābut it is powerful. Once your leadership is clear, culture becomes your next job. Not because itās trendy, but because itās the environment in which performance lives.
Define it. Teach it. Reinforce it. Or risk letting it drift in a direction you never intended.
š ļø Your Summer Playbook
The summer is an ideal time for high school and college coaches to establish their culture. Most people know what they want to do, but they donāt know how to do it.
They need a system.

The Culture Playbook is BETTERās custom system, complete with tools that you can use with your team to establish a culture. Itās full of team exercises you can do with your team in very little time to help you establish your culture.
These tools are used by entities such as Microsoft, Google, and athletic departments like Mississippi State, Florida State, and thousands of high schools.
And you can see it all with no commitment. Coaches ā access your free trial below.
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